Letter to God

There is something heartwarming in this story from the Daily Telegraph in which a six year-old girl, being brought up in a secular household, although attending a church-affiliated school. The children in the school were asked to write a letter to God, asking "How did you get invented?" The little girl, Lulu, showed this to her parents; her dad emailed it to a number of church leaders, getting either no response or a pile of theobabble, but, bless him, Dr Rowan Williams, the Archbishop of Canterbury, sent this reply:
Dear Lulu,

Your dad has sent on your letter and asked if I have any answers. It’s a difficult one! But I think God might reply a bit like this –

‘Dear Lulu – Nobody invented me – but lots of people discovered me and were quite surprised. They discovered me when they looked round at the world and thought it was really beautiful or really mysterious and wondered where it came from. They discovered me when they were very very quiet on their own and felt a sort of peace and love they hadn’t expected.

Then they invented ideas about me – some of them sensible and some of them not very sensible. From time to time I sent them some hints – specially in the life of Jesus – to help them get closer to what I’m really like.

But there was nothing and nobody around before me to invent me. Rather like somebody who writes a story in a book, I started making up the story of the world and eventually invented human beings like you who could ask me awkward questions!’

And then he’d send you lots of love and sign off.

I know he doesn’t usually write letters, so I have to do the best I can on his behalf. Lots of love from me too.

+Archbishop Rowan

Now I know I don't believe that there is a god, and nor do I indoctrinate my children either way - they will find out for themselves, and I'll answer their questions as best I can when they ask them. But for Archbishop Williams to write such a lovely non-in-your-face gentle letter gets him piles of credit in my view. There is no dogmatism there. There is no attempt to stifle the child's wonder or curiosity. There is of course a general assumption that god exists, but I don't expect the Archbishop to come from any other position.

So, Archbishop, thanks for this beautiful response; to me it demonstrates the meaning of a Christianity that people can engage with and use, whether or not they believe there is anyone there to actually write that letter. And well done Lulu!

3 comments:

  1. Was a great letter- very gentle response and light on the *theobabble*.make a refreshing change!
    Do you think it's possible to hold the middle ground without getting it on both sides -the Bible literalists on the one hand and the rapidly Athiest who take offence at any mention of religion, jesus for eg-It's like a no no to even suggest he's a good example to humanity,even just as a person without the divinity and all the other stuff attached to that. I find it pretty tough

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  2. Thanks, Anonymous; I am not sure whether the "middle ground" is quite where we are aiming for - my own aim is to drive debate forward, not reach a happy compromise, but that's just me. However, I think this shows that Rowan Williams is a caring and thoughtful man - I actually hadn't thought I would find myself saying that! He would make a great secular humanist :-)

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  3. The only problem i have with the letter is his assumption that if you are calm and peaceful within yourself then you are feeling the presence of god. Sorry, but no, that is a normal feeling and it has nothing to do with any deity.
    I see this as insidious. It subtly tells children that god is -feelings-.

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